The Sisterhood of Motherhood


Years before I had my first child, I always noticed that mothers seemed to be able to connect with each other in a way that most other people couldn’t. No matter their age, race, or socioeconomic class, there was an instant connection when two mothers started talking about their children. They would ask questions and compare notes. They would laugh and sometimes cry. At the end of the conversation each would walk away seeming to feel like they were carrying a piece of the other person with them. Their conversation really seemed to matter.

When I became pregnant I hoped that I would become part of this special sisterhood of mothers. Lucky for me, I was welcomed with open arms.

From the moment I started showing, every woman that I came in contact with wanted to talk about me and my journey. I was a little taken aback at first. Everyone’s willingness to tell me everything and then some, but after baby number two, I really began to appreciate the wisdom, empathy, and “been-there-done-that” advice that so many women were willing to openly offer me. Now, as a mom of two, I find myself welcoming others into the sisterhood of motherhood as the “honest-to-a fault” friend who refuses to sugarcoat the overwhelming emotions, the fear of the unknown, and the feeling of love that children bring to my world.

I count on all the women in the sisterhood to share in my joys, calm my nerves, and remind me that this too shall pass. This group of women have brought other people in to their lives through all kinds of spectacular circumstances. They have made a commitment and chosen to nurture them for the rest of their lives. These are the women who amaze me. Each of them inspire me. They are part of a special group that I call the sisterhood of motherhood.

Did you experience something similar?

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A South Carolina native, Erica is originally from the Upstate and has moved back to Charleston with her family after a 10 year, traffic-filled hiatus in Atlanta, GA. Having lived in only two states she likes to explore different cultures through travel and food.  Of all the hats Erica wears her most important roles are as a wife, mother, daughter and fundraiser for her alma mater, College of Charleston. She has been married to her college sweetheart for 13 years and together they have to kiddos that keep them on their toes.  She prides herself on being honest about motherhood and enjoys learning from other moms who tell it like it is. When life offers a little down time Erica enjoys wave jumping at the beach, unapologetically watching bad TV and organizing and re-organizing everything from the dishwasher to the sock drawers to help calm her inner OCD.